When you and your partner start swinging, it is not uncommon to have feelings of jealousy, whether its during your swinging encounter or even afterwards. If you and your partner have decided to enter the world of swinging the best way to stop jealousy is by talking about it. If you start to have any feelings of jealousy tell your partner. Talk to them about why you are feeling jealous, it is when you don’t communicate with your partner, that jealousy can turn swinging into an unbearable experience.
Feeling jealous does not mean the end of your swinging experiences, quite the opposite, it allows you and your partner to discuss new personal boundaries to make sure that swinging remains pleasurable. Swinging is an intimate act, and you will be sharing your partner with others. You both need to reinforce your commitment to each other and always bear in mind that it is you that will be going home with your partner after the experience has finished. Jealousy is natural, use jealousy wisely, so you can set common boundaries that will not be overstepped. |